A pop quiz on your very first day! The True Love Test.

Hi,

Over the course of the next few days together we’ll become intimately acquainted with the art of making True Love appear in your life. There’s no better preparation for First Date Magic.

In six installments, including today’s, we’ll talk about these vital topics:

• The ‘True Love’ test
• The difference between love and lust
• The truth about love at first sight
• Getting over your ex
• What men and women want
• The gateway to true love

So let’s get started!

The first thing we need to do is find the answer a very important question.

What is true love?

Now you might say that it’s obvious. But is it?

We’ve spoken to many, many people about this very question and got just about as many different answers. And usually they are kind of vague answers too. In fact most people say they’re not quite sure what True Love is, but they’ll know it when it happens.

But would you really? We think you need a much better picture of True Love than that.

We believe you must know exactly what true love is if you’re ever going to find it. And we bet if you went diamond mining you’d first get yourself a pretty good idea of what diamonds look and feel like – and what they’re worth.

So why wouldn’t you do the same thing for something that’s infinitely more valuable than the world’s finest diamond? There’s nothing worth more than the experience of True Love in your life.

Of course it’s an individual thing, but we believe that for love to be truly ‘true’, it must pass the ‘Test of True Love’ which we’ve borrowed from the first section of our book First Date Magic.

So that’s what we’d like you to do with us today. A pop quiz of love!

So think about the person you’re with now, or familiarize yourself with the test, so you can use it as a checklist for judging the wonderful people that reading First Date Magic will help make appear in your life in the very near future.

Just answer YES or NO.

(By the way, you owe it to yourself to be completely honest in your answers).

Q: Do you?

1) be a real friend to them, in good time and bad
2) treasure their beauty, inside and out
3) guard their secrets
4) feel an overpowering urge just to be with them
5) feel at home in their arms
6) love watching them while they sleep
7) have a welling feeling of joy when thoughts about them surprise you when you’re apart
8 wish you’d known each other longer and shared more together
9) you ‘get’ them – instinctively understanding what they’re about
10) share a vision of what life should be
11) share a sense of humor
12) take their happiness seriously
13) think about them even when you’re together.
14) crave the heat of their body
15) love each other’s natural scent and taste
16) be willing to make sacrifices for them without resentment
17) embrace each other’s weaknesses
18) never want to take advantage when their defenses are down
19) be inspired to be a better person, just for them
20) be concerned for their safety
21) be proud of their achievements
22) indulge their enthusiasms without cynicism
23) constantly refer to them when talking to others
24) feel relaxed in their company
25) feel a little empty when they’re gone
26) be completely unable to imagine having a better life with anyone else
27) be completely fulfilled and satisfied by your life together

To every single one of these questions the right answer is YES!

And did we mention this is a test where you have to get 100% right?

You see the thing is if answered NO to any of these questions, then what you have is one of these:

• a friendship
• an infatuation
• an object of lust
• a playmate
• a social prop
• a trophy
• a companion
• a relationship of convenience

If there were any NO’s among your answers, whatever your current relationship is, it just isn’t the fabulous wonderful state of being we know as True Love.

And don’t you deserve the real thing? Of course you do.

But you might ask is it possible to turn a relationship with a few NO’s against it into True Love? The short answer is … maybe.

But it all depends on what needs to change and which one of you needs to do the changing.

It’s easier to change yourself, than someone else. But we’re always left asking, should True Love really require any effort at all?

Of course even when you have True Love you still need to stay on your game – you must never take anyone for granted.

But we feel that True Love itself must be as irresistible as the tide. Its delightful, warm waters just flow in and submerge you, and there’s absolutely nothing you can do about it.

True Love just is.

The trick is finding the right person to submerge with. And that is what First Date Magic is all about.

If you haven’t already got your copy of First Date Magic, please do yourself the biggest favor ever and get it now.

The sooner you start learning our Magic, the sooner True Love will appear in your life.

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The next time we talk, in just a day or two, we’ll be looking the difference between love and lust, why it can be so terribly hard to know which is which. And why the confusion between the two can lead us to make very bad decisions – decisions that some people end up regretting for their whole lives.

In the meantime, why wait to work magic in your love life? You deserve to get First Date Magic today.

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With love,
Amy Roberts and Luke Daniels.
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Today – the difference between love and lust.

Hi,

Today we’re going to examine something which has tripped up countless millions of people as they dash through life in the pursuit of True Love – the subtle, yet absolutely massive, difference between love and lust.

So as we like to do, let’s start with a question.

What do we want to fall in love for anyway?

The pursuit of love and for that matter lust too, causes all of us its fair share of trouble and strife, so surely it must be for a good reason? Well as it turns out, there’s a very good reason – the survival of our species depends on it.

Pairing off with one person makes for a stronger breeding unit. When you have just one mate it saves time and energy, and gives both of you the security you need to raise children. Lust (otherwise known as the mating instinct) creates the pair bond, and love keeps it strong.

But we know that we’ve evolved from there. These days the true love we need to have in our lives is about much more than just about the survival of humankind – it’s what makes everything else we do worthwhile.

So what is the difference between love and lust? And why does it matter?

Being in love triggers the pleasure centers in our brain, which is why it feels so nice. A chemical called dopamine is released producing euphoria, extra energy, sleeplessness, and avid attention on your loved one. Physiologically it’s a lot like taking opium. But there’s an important and very powerful difference between love and lust.

To us it means everything!

Lust generally steals away like a thief in the night after sex and might, or might not, return sometime later. What’s more you can lust after several people at the same time. But when you’re in love, you are completely focused on just one person, and your feelings for them don’t evaporate after sex. In fact it’s the opposite, they usually become even stronger.

But you do have to be careful during sex, because you might think you’ve fallen in love! The reason is that after orgasm dopamine activity reaches its peak, and people can mistake the intense physical pleasure they’re experiencing as real emotional connection and love. And as many people have found out the hard way, can lead to tears after bedtime.

That’s one very good reason why we strongly advise a ‘no sex’ policy on first dates in First Date Magic.

No matter how great the date has been, or how gorgeous he or she may be, please don’t jump into bed on the first night. It will cloud your judgment at a time when you need to be seeing 20/20.

Staying in control is vital if you’re serious about finding True Love, so we give you many strategies to help you do just that in First Date Magic.

The sooner you take control of your love life, the sooner True Love will appear for you.

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The next thing we’re going to discuss in the next few days is ‘Love at First sight’. Does it really exist? Or is it just some romantic fantasy that only exists in the movies?

See you then.

With love,
Amy Roberts and Luke Daniels.
First Date Magic

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Today – The truth about love at first sights?

Hi,

We hope you’ve enjoyed the first two installments of ‘Welcome love to your life’ from First Date Magic. Today we’re half way through your free course, and we’re exploring one of the most dearly held romantic notions of all – the existence of love at first sight.

But does it really happen like that? And is the feeling you get really love? Or is it something different?

So many questions. But such a simple answer!

Yes, love at First Sight is real, sort of. But it’s really more like lust and it’s mostly guys who experience it.

Here’s why.

Men are hunters and because of that they respond to visual stimulation a lot more than women. Our caveman ancestors just needed a quick look at the hottie from the next cave to kick start the mating process. In those days you never knew when you were going to be eaten by something big and fierce, so time was precious.

Even now, when compared to women men have much simpler criteria when they’re choosing a mate.

You see it every single day.

Without the benefit of having read First Date Magic and therefore knowing better, men usually like to pick women who display youth and beauty.

In caveman terms these women are more desirable as mates, because they look like they will produce healthier, stronger offspring. That explains why guys usually marry women younger than themselves, even though that might not always lead to the best relationships – and rarely to True Love.

In First Date Magic we also look at what turns women on – and we see that although girls have a whole lot more going on when it comes to choosing a mate than guys, it doesn’t actually do any more to help them find True Love.

But that’s why we needed to write First Date Magic, so that we could help men and women know what really matters when you’re searching for True Love.

And the sooner you know exactly what to look for, the sooner you’ll have True Love in your life.

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But what happens if you think you’ve already found True Love, but your True Love doesn’t love you anymore?

No problem.

In Part Four of our course we let you into a few patented First Date Magic tips for getting over your ex ASAP – so you can get on with life, be happy, and find the real ‘one for you’.

Looking forward to next time.

With love,
Amy Roberts and Luke Daniels.
First Date Magic

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How to get over your ex, the easy way.

Hi,

Today we’re going to look at one of the biggest obstacles to finding True Love – the 500 pound gorilla known as ‘the ex’.

If you’re starting with a clean slate and you don’t have any lingering attachments to an ex, then you don’t need to worry about today’s installment – but then again, maybe you know someone else who could do with some good advice about making the fresh start they need.

So let’s get down to the serious business of getting rid of your 500 pound gorilla, so you’re free to find True Love with the right person – someone who we guarantee is out there right now waiting to find you too.

When you experience a relationship break up and there are feelings left over – whether they are feelings of loss and yearning, or feelings of hurt and anger you need to be able to wash them away, before you can get on with life.

There are millions of people still marked by their past relationships.

So the very first thing you must accept is that it is actually possible to have a completely fresh start and have a loving relationship with someone new who truly loves you in return.

It’s worth repeating.

You really can leave the past behind where it belongs. And just because you acted one way in your last relationship, it doesn’t mean you have to be like that in your next one.

For example, we know someone who had a very stormy, conflict filled relationship for almost 10 years. I had turned the happy, warm person we once knew into someone battered and bruised by the constant arguments. When thankfully the break up finally came, he was worried that he had become programmed to be a hard, defensive person, and that would spoil his new love – with a sensitive, gentle, wonderful woman he was truly devoted too.

But using the tips we recommend in First Date Magic, Steve was able to leave his gorilla behind, and remember that he was still the same great guy he always was.

He freed himself and could see his new relationship with fresh eyes.

And we’re proud to say, Steve has never looked back. He’s three years into his new romance, and still looks at her with pure adoration – and gets the very same looks from her in return.

In fact Steve’s story was one of the main inspirations behind the writing of First Date Magic – we just had to help bring that beautiful True Love into other people’s lives as well.

OK then, so what you need to do if you’ve got a problem getting over your ex?

Here are the key points of nine tips from the introductory section of First Date Magic that we promise will help do the trick for you:

1. Take time out.

Break off contact completely so you can calm down and give your hurt feelings the space they need to mend.

2. Enjoy some ‘me’ time.

Spoil yourself, and remember how your ex got in the way of those nights out with the boys, or hated you going shopping with the girls.

3. Spring Clean.

Get rid of all the stuff you acquired during your relationship – whatever it cost.

4. Remember their flaws.

Write a list of all the stupid, pathetic, rude, annoying, mean, nasty, scary stuff they used to do to remind you how much better off you are without them.

5. Quit harping on about them.

Don’t talk about them. Just say you haven’t seen them lately, and change the subject.

6. Do something totally new.

Now’s the time to try things you ‘always wanted to do’ but never quite got around to, like skydiving or yoga. Seek out new people, who’ll take you for who you are, not just as a broken half of a couple.

7. Go to the people who love you.

As long as they don’t get on your case, surround yourself with people you can rely on for good advice and moral support.

8. Be active.

Join a club, go to the movies, go on holiday, start a new some program – do anything but wallow in misery.

9. Be more choosey next time.

Chances are your ex wasn’t the right sort of person for you anyway. So the end of that relationship is actually a good thing – it’s the perfect opportunity to start fresh and find your true love.

We’ll that should just about do it. Follow our simple plan and your ex should be a distant memory in no time.

And then you can get on with meeting your True Love, and that’s where First Date Magic can’t be beat.

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Our next topic is a question that has puzzled people for centuries – what do men and women really want from each other. See you in couple of days.

But in the meantime, why wait to work magic in your love life? You deserve to get First Date Magic today.

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With love,
Amy Roberts and Luke Daniels.
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Men and women – what do we really want from each other?

Hi,

Today we take another FREE look inside the pages of First Date Magic to discover the answer to this very tricky question.

Something we love to do is take human nature back its beginnings – it’s the best way to understand why we act like we do.

Back in the good old caveman days Females bore the children, ran the cave, ensured a healthy, nurturing environment for the kids, kept an eye out for danger, and held the family group together.

All males had to worry about was a spot of mating every now and then, bringing home food and protecting the cave from danger.

In the two or three million years since then, things haven’t changed that much at all.

Guys this is for you – What Women Want!

Here are the seven things that you must understand about women if you want your relationship to blossom into everlasting true love.

1. At the most basic level women want men to be men.

This is the reason why a confident man is so attractive, it equates to strength, and security. Women want men to have a plan – to know what they are doing and why, and have the means to achieve it. You can be spontaneous, because girls wanna have fun, but your spontaneity needs to come pre-packaged with a definite objective.

Of course, you can say it’s a surprise, but just make sure you have a good one already in the works to spring on her when you get there.

2. Women are interested in the future.

Part of your plan must also be to provide a nice home and satisfactory support. It shows the woman that she is valued, and that you are willing to invest in your future together.

The prospect of a secure future is very important to women, because it’s necessary to rearing children. If you seem like an ambition-free deadbeat, then sadly for you dates with quality girls who with good self-esteem will be few and far between.

3. Women want to loved and appreciated.

Because women are nurturing by nature, their world revolves around love – so they in turn want to be adored and needed by their men. They also want you to appreciate that they are sensitive and complex beings, who must be treasured and admired like delicate flowers. Women need you protect them, and that includes their emotions. And this is probably why many women say they are looking for a ‘soul mate’. They want someone who knows them instinctively and can give them whatever emotional security and support they happen to need, 24/7.

4. Women need to know that they are attractive.

Even if they’ve just been crowned Miss Universe, women still need to know that they are desirable, and that’s why they need to complimented frequently on their appearance. Not just by men, but also by other women.

Listen to them talking to their friends, and you’ll hear them saying nice things to each other about their hair and choice of clothes that day. It’s also the reason why some women like to flirt and tease. It’s not necessarily to pick up anyone, but more for the fun of it and the reassurance that they ’still got it’.

5. Women like to be listened to.

Men usually make the mistake of immediately trying to offer a solution to problems, but often that’s not what the woman needs. What they want is to vent their fury, reach their own conclusions and work things out from there. They might want your help, or they might not. You just have to listen and be ready to act on the signals they give you.

6. Women are tougher nuts to crack than men.

All the things we’ve just pointed out adds up to the fact that women have much stricter requirements for a mate than men do, and why they tend to take longer to fall in love (and to convince that you’re worth a second date).

7. Women need to feel that they are a valued part of a partnership.

Women want to be consulted about your plans and told about what’s going on in your life. Keep talking to them and asking their advice and they will feel loved and appreciated.

Now girls it’s your turn – What Men Want!

No matter what your mother told you it’s not just one thing. While it’s pretty safe to assume that most men are simpler creatures than women, they do have needs above the waist as well – even if they are pretty basic.

1. Men want women to be women.

Deep-down men still yearn for the classic feminine qualities when they’re a looking for a date. Being one of the boys is cool, as long as you don’t mind being thought of as one too.

So what men are looking for (even if they don’t admit it, or even know it themselves) is warmth and sensitivity, willingness to receive love and give it in return. Men also like to feel that a women likes kids and would be a good mother one day.

2. Men want support.

You know the saying ‘behind every great man, is a great woman’. Well it’s true for ordinary guys as well. Men want a partner in life who can be relied on to give them encouragement and affirmation. There’s no such thing as ‘constructive criticism’.

3. Men want commitment and trust.

Feeling secure in a relationship is very important to men – back in the cave days it meant that he could be sure that the children of the cave were his. Now it’s more to do with trust and being able to open up and share his dreams, hopes and fears (and income).

4. Men want to feel passion.

Men need something to remind them that they are alive. Some find it in sports, while the really lucky ones also find it in the eyes of their beloved. A woman who inspires passion and is able keep the fires burning, will keep her man in no doubt why he’s been put on this earth.

5. Wanted: a GSOH.

A woman with a ‘Good Sense Of Humor’ is pure 24 carat dating gold. If you can crack a joke with the best of them, it makes you relaxing and fun to be with, and pretty much able to take your pick of great guys.

But of course understanding the differences between men and women is just scratching the surface of what you need to know to meet absolutely the right person for you – but luckily all the rest is covered for you in First Date Magic.

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Well that’s almost it for your Free First Date Magic course – just one lesson to go, but it’s a big one. In the next few days we’ll talk about why the First Date is so very, very important to making True Love appear in your life.

But why wait to start working magic in your love life? Get First Date Magic immediately.

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The First Date – the gateway to True Love.

Hi,

Welcome to the last part of your FREE First Date Magic course. We sincerely hope you’ve enjoyed getting it in your inbox every few day, and that it’s given you a real insight into how you can make True Love appear for you.

And now we come to the sharp end – make or break time, where you meet your True Love one-on-one in a romantic setting for the very first time – THE FIRST DATE.

When you want to find true love, the first date means everything, because it’s the time when you must decide if the person you’re with is worth the investing time, energy and money it will take to get to know them better, or is it a better option to give up on them and keep looking?

The First Date is the gateway to true love.

Now’s a good time to think back to Day One of our course, and look at the True Love Test. Now imagine you’re on a first date with someone and ask yourself ‘do I feel deep down inside that one day they could have ticks beside their name for every one of these points?’

Q: Could I?

1) be a real friend to them, in good time and bad
2) treasure their beauty, inside and out
3) guard their secrets
4) feel an overpowering urge just to be with them
5) feel at home in their arms
6) love watching them while they sleep
7) have a welling feeling of joy when thoughts about them surprise you when you’re apart
8 wish you’d known each other longer and shared more together
9) you ‘get’ them – instinctively understanding what they’re about
10) share a vision of what life should be
11) share a sense of humor
12) take their happiness seriously
13) think about them even when you’re together.
14) crave the heat of their body
15) love each other’s natural scent and taste
16) be willing to make sacrifices for them without resentment
17) embrace each other’s weaknesses
18) never want to take advantage when their defenses are down
19) be inspired to be a better person, just for them
20) be concerned for their safety
21) be proud of their achievements
22) indulge their enthusiasms without cynicism
23) constantly refer to them when talking to others
24) feel relaxed in their company
25) feel a little empty when they’re gone
26) be completely unable to imagine having a better life with anyone else
27) be completely fulfilled and satisfied by your life together

So now you see why the First Date is so important, because it’s a pivotal moment when you could set a course for the rest of your life, and it’s why learning First Date Magic is the best thing you can ever do.

Of course you might read this and say, ‘man that seems to be taking dating much too seriously’, and you could be right – if you’re not serious about finding True Love.

And that is perfectly OK, because there is the right time for fun, and the right time for love.

But if your internal clock is saying True Love, then it’s worth making the effort and taking what you’re doing seriously, because the consequences of getting it wrong, suck!

Another thing you might be thinking is, is there really anyone out there for me? The list is so long, how could anyone every measure up.
Well, there are two answers to that – both good.

According to the latest US Census data 44% of Americans over the age of 18 years are single. That means there are over 100 million single guys and girls in American alone, who’re available to go on a date.

The point is, there’s a lot of choice, and there’s sure to be someone who’s just right for you. All you have to do is find them, and then ace that all important first date – and that’s what First Date Magic is all about.

And the second thing is easy. When you find your True Love, all these things just magically seem to fall into place. It just happens.

True Love just is.

However we must mention something that trips a lot of people up -pursuing perfection.

We hear many people, mostly women, saying they’ll never settle for second best – that they’d rather stay single than be with someone who isn’t perfect.

So they don’t go on many dates. And because they don’t date, they don’t get to meet people who might actually be totally right for them, and bring them the true love they secretly crave.

So for those people we have two words. Get real.

Nobody is perfect, but that still doesn’t mean they can’t be totally the right person for you, and fill your life with joy. And why do you think deserve perfection anyway?

We explore this issue in more depth in First Date Magic, along with so much more. Here’s a taste of just some of the things you’ll learn in this unique ebook (and complimentary MP3 audio book package):

• Dating for single parents
• Dressing to look thinner.
• How to recognize a great person to date.
• The secrets of online dating.
• How to ask someone out.
• Reading body language.
• Flirting made easy.
• How to be charming and interesting.
• Dealing with nerves.
• Dating etiquette.
• Sex and first dates.

A whole world full of love is waiting out there for you, but you need a plan. And that’s exactly what you get in First Date Magic.

With our secret recipe for finding True Love nothing is left to chance.

And with the Private Coaching you get as part of First Date Magic we’re there to hold your hand as you take your all important first steps towards that most important step of all,

The First Date – the gateway to True Love.

So don’t miss out, we have a few new coach spots available now. Grab yours while you can – and be in touch with us one-on-on.
It will be great to meet you (even if it will be via email).

So the only thing left to do now is get First Date Magic. It will be best the best click you ever made.

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With love,
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